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The following statistics come from Testing the Waters.

What women want

  1. Receiving oral sex (80% yes, 12% neutral).
  2. Having more frequent sex (68% yes, 24% neutral).
  3. Giving blowjobs (68% yes, 20% neutral).
  4. Being handcuffed or tied up (68% yes, 18% neutral).
  5. Him talking dirty during sex (68% yes, 18% neutral).
  6. Having the guy initiate sex more often (64% yes, 25% neutral).
  7. Experimenting with a sex toy (62% yes, 19% neutral).
  8. Having the guy bite her neck or shoulders (62% yes, 18% neutral).
  9. 69ers (61% yes, 21% neutral)
  10. Initiating sex more often herself (60% yes, 28% neutral).
  11. Role-playing (60% yes, 23% neutral).
  12. Rougher sex (60% yes, 21% neutral).
  13. Her talking dirty during sex (59% yes, 25% neutral).
  14. Being spanked (58% yes, 19% neutral).
  15. Handcuffing or tying up the guy (58% yes, 19% neutral).
  16. Facesitting on the guy (54% yes, 19% neutral).
  17. Having sex outside (54% yes, 18% neutral).
  18. Masturbating while the guy watches (53% yes, 20% neutral).
  19. Watching the guy masturbate (52% yes, 24% neutral).
  20. Watching an erotic movie together (51% yes, 23% neutral).

What men want

  1. Getting blowjobs (89% yes, 7% neutral).
  2. Giving oral sex (87% yes, 9% neutral).
  3. 69ers (80% yes, 12% neutral)
  4. More frequent sex (79% yes, 16% neutral).
  5. Watching the girl masturbate (78% yes, 12% neutral).
  6. Having the girl should initiate sex more often (77% yes, 18% neutral).
  7. Her talking dirty during sex (73% yes, 17% neutral).
  8. Handcuffing or tying up the girl (72% yes, 18% neutral).
  9. Having the girl swallow after a blowjob (68% yes, 20% neutral).
  10. Having the girl facesit on him (68% yes, 15% neutral).
  11. Rougher sex (67% yes, 22% neutral).
  12. Experimenting with a sex toy (67% yes, 19% neutral).
  13. Talking dirty to the girl during sex (66% yes, 20% neutral).
  14. Taking sexy pictures or videos of each other (66% yes, 18% neutral).
  15. Spanking the girl (64% yes, 21% neutral).
  16. Coming on the girl's face (64% yes, 17% neutral).
  17. Role-playing (62% yes, 25% neutral).
  18. Watching an erotic movie together (61% yes, 22% neutral).
  19. Biting the girl's neck or shoulders (60% yes, 24% neutral).
  20. Being handcuffed or tied up (60% yes, 20% neutral).

This next set comes from Couples Truth or Dare

Top truths - General

  1. Does it turn you on when your partner talks dirty during sex?
  2. Describe something you've wanted to do with your partner in bed, but have been too shy to suggest.
  3. Which sexual fantasy of yours is still unfulfilled?
  4. What is something that turns you on, that your partner may not know about?
  5. What is typically the most satisfying way to orgasm: oral, hand, or sex?

Top dares - General

  1. Stroke the guy over his clothes until you can feel his cock become erect.
  2. Give your partner a hand-job somewhere outside.
  3. The girl must try to make her partner hard without touching him.
  4. Give your partner oral sex while they have a shower.
  5. Give your partner oral sex somewhere outside.

Top truths - Home

  1. Are you turned on by the thought of someone watching you have sex?
  2. Describe the kinkiest thing you have ever done.
  3. Tell each other a fetish of yours that you have not previously revealed.
  4. Does it turn you on to be spanked during sex?
  5. What do you usually think about when you masturbate?

Top dares - Home

  1. The guy must give the girl oral sex while she is standing up. She may place her hands on a wall to support herself.
  2. You must start having sex, and then the girl must transition into giving the guy a blowjob, so that she is tasting herself while she pleasures him.
  3. Each of you must put a finger into the girl's pussy simultaneously, and pleasure her together.
  4. Give your partner oral sex for 30 seconds.
  5. The girl must give the guy a blowjob while the guy is standing up.

Top truths - Bar/Club

  1. Are you turned on by the thought of someone watching you have sex?
  2. Who in the room would you most like to have a threesome with?
  3. What are the sexiest clothes that your partner wears (or that you would like him/her to wear)?
  4. Who in the room would you most like to have sex with, other than your partner?
  5. Would it turn you on to watch your partner strip for everyone in the room?

Top dares - Bar/Club

  1. Touch your partner's cock while in a bar/nightclub.
  2. Give your partner 20 seconds of oral sex in the restroom of a bar or nightclub.
  3. Wear a short skirt and no underwear. Drop something in front of a group of guys and bend over to pick it up.
  4. The girl must put her hand down the guy's pants while on the dance floor.
  5. Take a picture of yourself naked in the restroom, and show it to your partner.

Top truths - Group of couples

  1. Are you turned on by the thought of someone watching you have sex?
  2. Does it turn you on when your partner talks dirty during sex?
  3. Which sexual fantasy of yours is still unfulfilled?
  4. Would it turn you on to see your partner make out with someone of the same sex?
  5. Are you turned on by the thought of having anal sex with your partner?

Top dares - Group of couples

  1. Give your partner oral sex for 30 seconds in front of everyone.
  2. You must each grope another player's boobs/crotch.
  3. The girl must flash her breasts to everyone in the room. Everyone has full permission (in fact, is required) to stare.
  4. The rest of the group get to strip you completely.
  5. Make out, and kiss and massage the girl's breasts, until her nipples become erect.